I’ve learned to just let people be as they are. Growing up, I was told things like, “That’s just how she is. She’s always been like that wherever she is and whoever she’s around.” I appreciate your work and helping me to understand that as an adult, it is my responsibility to determine how I want certain people to show up in my life. They may see their behavior as justified and not willing to change. Beginning with the Set Boundaries, Find Peace book, I understood that it’s not my responsibility to change others. My boundaries are for me. So ready for the Drama Free release! I plan to gift this book to a few family members.
“Adult relationships are a choice” ---they sure are!
I choose to take care of my mom during the last 6 months of her life. Prior to her illness I created much needed boundaries. Our relationship was extremely challenging. When life circumstances changed, I made the choice to be her caretaker not out of a sense of “duty”, but because I examined my own values and who I wanted to be.
That’s the beauty of standing in power & choice.
We have the freedom to pivot and reevaluate relationships over and over again. It doesn’t have to be “one and done”.
Took me a looooong time to start separating myself from some family members. No matter what they continue to be immature and manipulative and I just don't have the energy for it anymore. I love them but I don't have the time to deal with these behaviors anymore.
This topic is so dear to my heart because I had to go through a LOT in order to create a healthy relationship with my parents. What I did that really changed the course of my life for better was that I moved away to live on my own and find my peace when I was 18. I explained to my parents how I felt and that I needed time and space away. I didn’t talk to them for a whole year and focused on finding myself and healing. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made although it was very very difficult for both sides🤍
My relationship with my parents is amazing rn, like never before✨
Absolutely!! Learning to see my parents as human beings was key to move through the difficulties and find love again🤍 and ofc putting the right boundaries was one of the best tools in the journey ;)
Thank you, thank you! This was on point Nedra and it definitely coincides with why we need Drama Free. Can I also say I love the A Few Things That Caught My Attention This Week section. I'm always looking to see if there is anything there that add to my knowledge and you never disappoint with your suggestions.
I preordered the book but did not download the free chapter in time. Is there still a way to access this or is it included in my preorder copy?
I’ve learned to just let people be as they are. Growing up, I was told things like, “That’s just how she is. She’s always been like that wherever she is and whoever she’s around.” I appreciate your work and helping me to understand that as an adult, it is my responsibility to determine how I want certain people to show up in my life. They may see their behavior as justified and not willing to change. Beginning with the Set Boundaries, Find Peace book, I understood that it’s not my responsibility to change others. My boundaries are for me. So ready for the Drama Free release! I plan to gift this book to a few family members.
“Adult relationships are a choice” ---they sure are!
I choose to take care of my mom during the last 6 months of her life. Prior to her illness I created much needed boundaries. Our relationship was extremely challenging. When life circumstances changed, I made the choice to be her caretaker not out of a sense of “duty”, but because I examined my own values and who I wanted to be.
That’s the beauty of standing in power & choice.
We have the freedom to pivot and reevaluate relationships over and over again. It doesn’t have to be “one and done”.
Thank you as always Nedra!
Took me a looooong time to start separating myself from some family members. No matter what they continue to be immature and manipulative and I just don't have the energy for it anymore. I love them but I don't have the time to deal with these behaviors anymore.
Thank you Nedra! Very helpful!
This topic is so dear to my heart because I had to go through a LOT in order to create a healthy relationship with my parents. What I did that really changed the course of my life for better was that I moved away to live on my own and find my peace when I was 18. I explained to my parents how I felt and that I needed time and space away. I didn’t talk to them for a whole year and focused on finding myself and healing. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made although it was very very difficult for both sides🤍
My relationship with my parents is amazing rn, like never before✨
Giving people the opportunity to improve can transform a relationship. At first, the road to recovery may be challenging, but things can improve.
Absolutely!! Learning to see my parents as human beings was key to move through the difficulties and find love again🤍 and ofc putting the right boundaries was one of the best tools in the journey ;)
Thank you so much for these insightful, relevant and practical strategies!
Ohhhhhh boy. “There are so many people who continue to have issues with their parents as adults in the same way as when they were as children.”
Amen to that. Challenging!! I write about this a bit on my stack. Your book sounds incredibly helpful ❤️
Michael Mohr
‘The Incompatibility of Being Alive’
https://reallife82.substack.com/
Thank you, thank you! This was on point Nedra and it definitely coincides with why we need Drama Free. Can I also say I love the A Few Things That Caught My Attention This Week section. I'm always looking to see if there is anything there that add to my knowledge and you never disappoint with your suggestions.
As always, a great newsletter. I just preordered your book! Thank you for all you do!