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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

I feel blessed to have such diversity amongst my friendship circle. It’s important for me because I have so many dimensions to my personality. I couldn’t be satisfied with just one or two friends. And it’s unfair for me to expect them to be passionate or enthusiastic about all the stuff that I want to discuss. That’s why it’s been important for me to invite new people into my space and to let my intuition guide me about who I feel safe around and can trust and want to deepen the relationship with and those I don’t. Plus, I learn a lot from others too.

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Sincerely Shiku's avatar

NEDRA GURLL YOU DID YOUR BIG ONE WITH THIS ONEEE!! thank you for sharing this!! I’m so glad I shifted my perspective on friendships, growing up you’re told that having less friends is “better” or “more fitting” but as I’m getting older there so much I’m unlearning/re learning about friendships. I’m learning that people in your life sometimes serve a season or they are there for just a moment. I’m also learning that you need people in your circle who challenge you, who are willing to resolve conflicts, people who you can call you out/ vise versa and finally people who are willing to create better systems to have wholesome/meaningful relationships. As I get older I’m also open and willing to create new connections and friendships.

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