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Darrell Robinson's avatar

I truly appreciated this article—it came at just the right time. After 40 years of marriage, I’ve been trying to discover new ways of being with my wife. Recently, we had a major disagreement about how we approach intimacy, and I realized I wasn’t willing to compromise, which only escalated the conflict. This article prompted me to reflect deeply on how I support our differences and why I often feel things need to go my way. Moving forward, I’m committed to making amends, honoring our differences, and approaching things with greater understanding so that our relationship can be more harmonious. Thank you for this powerful reminder.

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Amy Ghost Writer's avatar

I agree with everything you said completely. I decided to start following football years ago even though it wasn’t a huge priority, but at the same time I didn’t enjoy golf which this same person enjoyed. Commonality is key, but at the same time we should be able to say with tact if we don’t care for something like I did in regards to golf. Quite a few years ago, I was introduced to water aerobics and found that I love it. While I love it, I understand that not everyone I know will. I will watch football, have tried remodeling, and watched an air show even though those are things that aren’t at the top of my interest list. This person listens to my writing ideas, church activities, and other things I like even though they may not do those. It’s a nice balance definitely.

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