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Cynthia Wall, LCSW's avatar

I love the 730 time in the morning. I ended up at a friend’s house for breakfast, facial masks, and a scrabble game at 7 o’clock one morning and we decided that 7 AM is the new 7 PM. It’s so liberating just to admit that we wanna know how our friends are as much as we wanna share how we are. The voyeuristic need of following the story from beginning to end is something we cannot overlook. And texting and Facebook or whatever I’d Tunt do it justice. The quiet, listening, the pauses, but wait wait wait wait I’ve gotta tell you something! They are absolutely irreplaceable and anything other than voice to voice, or even person a person. I think zoom is the exception to the loneliness quotient of screen time. Thank you, Nedra.

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Shatara's avatar

Creating healthy friendships is actually a goal I’ve set for myself. I don’t have any friends in my life after having so many failed friendships and being humiliated from them. I’m finally in a space where I’m examining where things went wrong and how I want my future friendships to feel. My mother and grandmother also don’t have friends in their life so I know this is something generational that I’m encouraged to overcome. This article helped me to reshape my idea of friendship

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